Finding Love Online
A Woman's Guide To Meeting Mr. Right Using Online Dating
Secrets About Online Dating Services & Finding Love Online
First off, let's start with this: online dating is a business geared towards profits from advertising and membership revenue.
Make no mistake about it, they want your money and they want you to be a member for as long as possible.
Never mind the "Join for free" all dating services advertise, sure, you're a member with no access to the fun stuff, no contact with other members other than winks and smiles, maybe.
And once you start seeing possible matches to the guy you're most likely to be interested in, the results change, the guys are farther away, weirder, and just off the rack plain.
No supermen here, ladies!
So if you don't want to be investing a mortgage or rental payment into finding love online you've got to understand how the "profile switcheroo" works against you:
1. Lack of guys in your area
2. Creepy responses to your profile
3. Attempts of membership renewal with more enticing matches near the end of your paid term of membership
4. Wider than requested search results of possible matches (do you really want a long distance online love affair with a guy you may never meet?)
Preparation and knowledge is the tip here!
Familiarize yourself with all contact features that are offered, including webcam chat, audio messages, even phone forwarding services. You need to know how they work so you can use them when someone tries contacting you that way.
Keep track of your profile and the changes that you make to it that negatively and positively affect the matches you receive and, always... log in regularly to your account to see other members, send smiles, winks and messages so you get full value of you monthly membership fees.
Use all the features that you have paid for including messaging other potential matches first, introducing yourself by sending winks, smiles and other fun introduction features available and use chat, video, audio, all the message features available to you.
Be as complete as possible with your profile but also be prepared to change it every couple of days if you aren't getting the responses you'd like.
Cancelling your account does not guarantee a refund of any amount, be sure you know the dating service polices.
Article by Judy... please do not reprint or copy.
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